This article is not about sexuality. It is about the energies that can be called feminine and the energies that can be called masculine.
Each person has inside of themselves a proportion of masculine and feminine energy.
The masculine energy is responsible for : taking action, building, protecting, fighting for something, finishing projects, working, planning, taking care of responsibilities.
The feminine energy is responsible for : nurturing and caring for others, dreaming and imagining, creativity, intuition, expression of emotions.
A great ratio to have is 60% masculine energy + 40% feminine energy for men and 60% feminine energy + 40% masculine energy for women.
When there are imbalances in these energies a person can become dangerous. Too much masculine energy can cause : aggression, abusive behaviour, possessiveness, competition, rage.
Too much feminine energy can cause : smothering, laziness, obsession, paranoia, addictions, feeling stuck.
The people who allow themselves to have too much masculine energy (regardless if they are men or women) are the ones who hate women in general (misogynistic) because they actually hate the feminine energy in themselves and refuse to accept or express it. .Usually these people have grown up in an environment where feminine energy is seen as a weakness : for e.g. being too caring, expressing emotions like crying or laughter, dreaming too much etc.
The people who allow themselves to have too much feminine energy (regardless if they are men or women) are the ones who hate men in general because they actually hate the masculine energy in themselves and refuse to accept or express it. Usually these people have grown up in an environment where masculine energy was seen as a weakness : for e.g working too much leading to injury or disease, taking action impulsively creating repercussions, focusing too much on responsibilities without any fun etc.
If you feel you have an imbalance in these types of energies inside of yourself, the first step is to analyse the cause for it. Usually it stems from childhood and the environment you grew up in. If you were raised by a single mother you may be lacking masculine energy or vice versa.
On this planet the dominant energy was the masculine energy for thousands and thousands of years. That’s why we we faced so many conflicts, wars, suppression and abuse against women and Mother Earth.
The pandemic has forced people lately to dim down their masculine energy (with so many people staying at home and lacking action), but we are facing a crucial point where the balance may turn to much the other way and becoming too lazy, fearful , addicted and paranoid.
The easiest way to balance both energies is to do as many activities as possible outside in nature. The sky, the wind and the sun represent the masculine energy ( The Father) and the soil, the water and the plants represent the feminine energy ( The Mother).
When you connect with the sky, the wind and the sun you connect to your masculine energy and you balance it ( like sun bathing, running in the wind, running under the rain etc)
When you connect with the soil, the water and the plants you connect with the feminine energy and you balance it ( like gardening, tree hugging, waking barefoot on the grass, swimming etc)
The sexuality is not depending on the proportion of these energies, but the attraction is. For example, if you are a heterosexual man with 30% feminine energy and 70% masculine energy you will be more attracted to a woman that has 70 % feminine energy and 30 % masculine. If you are a gay woman with 70 % masculine and 30 % feminine energy you will be more attracted to a woman that has 30% masculine and 70 % feminine and so on. In union both feminine and masculine inside of each other become one and if the couple is aware of their own imbalances then the proportions can heal themselves and become less dangerous.
Much love to you all!
Laura Dogariu 