Stop working so hard! It’s a trap!

As any person striving for achieving goals I came across in Youtube videos, media, books, TV shows or even movies, this idea that you need to work HARD to be successful. You need to hustle. You need to step out of your comfort zone. You need planners and TODO lists. You need to sweat.  YouContinue reading “Stop working so hard! It’s a trap!”

Should you trust people?

  This is not a tutorial on how to trust someone. This is not a checklist of what makes someone trustworthy or not. This is not a list of ‘red flags’ you should watch out for. You cannot control the actions of others. The only reason you crave so much for trust, is due toContinue reading “Should you trust people?”

Wisdom Bombs

Sometimes I wake up in the middle of the night with some inspirational quotes in my head, that will haunt me for days. Other times, they just come to me spontaneously, after weeks or days of questions in my head. Since I can’t write a whole article around one single idea all the time, IContinue reading “Wisdom Bombs”

Why do you attract certain people and how to change that

You create your own reality. The basis of your creation is in how you feel. The way you feel will lead you to certain thoughts, that eventually will manifest in the physical form, if held for more than 16 seconds.¬† The people in your life are co-creators to your own reality, by constantly showing youContinue reading “Why do you attract certain people and how to change that”

How to make decisions in life

The process of making decisions , from deciding on small things like what you will have for dinner, to bigger things, like choosing from two different paths or partners, is something that we should constantly work on to improve, and we should treat with high importance and from a place of consciousness. First of allContinue reading “How to make decisions in life”

How to find a true answer to "Where do you see yourself in 5 years?"

After finishing collage, having a degree in computer science, like any other fresh graduate, I started job scouting, and preparing for interviews. I was interviewing for a software engineer position in several multinational companies, and I noticed one of the common questions were : “Where do you see yourself in 5 years?” Being a littleContinue reading “How to find a true answer to "Where do you see yourself in 5 years?"”

Do other people's opinions about us matter ? and how to deal with them

Imagine yourself in the first 7 years of your life like a blank computer program, ready to be written. You’re just starting to learn about how things in life work, how society works , how money works, how relationships work and so on. Who is the first with privilege to write something in your program?Continue reading “Do other people's opinions about us matter ? and how to deal with them”

A sensitive topic : Depression

I noticed people are very sensitive to this topic, especially when it comes to pieces of advice to “cure” depression, claiming that in the most severe cases, you are actually experiencing a “clinical depression”,¬† in which case the only treatment consists of medication or drugs. This makes it very very difficult to debate¬†anything about depression!Continue reading “A sensitive topic : Depression”

Introvert , Extrovert or Maybe Something Else? My journey to Self Discovery

Since I was a little girl, I had difficulties getting accepted and fitting in with the rest. I was always very quiet, not interacting with anybody, not making the first step to anything. At the parental meetings, the teacher never had complaints about me, saying I was just really behaved, sitting there in my bench,Continue reading “Introvert , Extrovert or Maybe Something Else? My journey to Self Discovery”