After finishing collage, having a degree in computer science, like any other fresh graduate, I started job scouting, and preparing for interviews. I was interviewing for a software engineer position in several multinational companies, and I noticed one of the common questions were : "Where do you see yourself in 5 years?" Being a little… Continue reading How to find a true answer to "Where do you see yourself in 5 years?"
My encounter with a baby crow
Last week the city was stroke by a torrential rain , with drops so heavy and numerous, that a mist was emerged from the ground, not being able to see at a couple of meters ahead of you. It took about 30 minutes or more, then the sun came up. The atmosphere was so magical,… Continue reading My encounter with a baby crow
The way you do one thing is the way you do everything
The number one complain in school that I heard from my pears was the following : what use has "x" subject in real life? Why do we have to study all these theoretical notions?" For some time I was in the same puddle, complaining about the same things, and finding it very very hard to… Continue reading The way you do one thing is the way you do everything
How to optimize your closet and spend less on clothes
Lately I started observing my habits with more interest, and I'm pretty disappointed about my closet management. Here are the top 3 issues I found: 1. Although I have over 30 pieces of summer clothing (even after the moving clean up), I still wear only 20% of them. 2. Even though I like some of… Continue reading How to optimize your closet and spend less on clothes
Do other people's opinions about us matter ? and how to deal with them
Imagine yourself in the first 7 years of your life like a blank computer program, ready to be written. You're just starting to learn about how things in life work, how society works , how money works, how relationships work and so on. Who is the first with privilege to write something in your program?… Continue reading Do other people's opinions about us matter ? and how to deal with them
A sensitive topic : Depression
I noticed people are very sensitive to this topic, especially when it comes to pieces of advice to "cure" depression, claiming that in the most severe cases, you are actually experiencing a "clinical depression", in which case the only treatment consists of medication or drugs. This makes it very very difficult to debate anything about depression!… Continue reading A sensitive topic : Depression
Why I think life is like a video game
How life is compared with a video game, how your character is already decided at birth and you must work through life with strengths and weaknesses.
A poem about fear
'Someone called. I have to go. Just an errand, nothing more.' Every step feels insecure. Every look, hard to endure. They say : ' Use imagination!' They say: ' Try it, for probation!' But you can't. And who's to blame? You or he who has you chained? Being fearful is no joke. Breathing hard and… Continue reading A poem about fear
Today is my Birthday!
Part.1 When I was born... Exactly 28 years ago, on the day I was born, started the Romanian Revolution in the city called Timisoara, the city I currently live in today. There is actually a boulevard in Timisoara with the name of my Birth date : "16 December 1989". My mother said some women from the… Continue reading Today is my Birthday!
Introvert , Extrovert or Maybe Something Else? My journey to Self Discovery
Since I was a little girl, I had difficulties getting accepted and fitting in with the rest. I was always very quiet, not interacting with anybody, not making the first step to anything. At the parental meetings, the teacher never had complaints about me, saying I was just really behaved, sitting there in my bench,… Continue reading Introvert , Extrovert or Maybe Something Else? My journey to Self Discovery